唔好標籤我
近日有朋友相約週日下午茶小聚。 朋友說,知道我作為一名已婚婦人,下午可能要陪奶奶飲茶,晚上可能要煮飯比老公食。我知道朋友只是隨口說說,但我讀完那件郵件後便很反感。
為什麼結婚了，在週日就是陪奶奶飯茶?晚上就是要相夫教子?為什麼結了婚的就不可以日夜喪浦?別那麼老土，ｐｌｅａｓｅ！不喜歡別人因為我某一個身份而認為我應該怎樣怎樣, 或善意的為我作一些特別安排。當然我了解很多時只是朋輩的一些玩笑,但事情本身還是很讓我反感。我討厭一切別人自行為我作的defination和決定。
唔好標籤我。我沒有因為結婚了,就疏遠朋友,或少去了卡拉OK,或拒絶玩樂,或拒絶認識俊男.
*此段特別寫給那個只是善意想為我作安排，或只是說說的那個朋友:
我知道你可能會來看我的BLOG(我不肯定),請別怪我的坦白率直。我絶對不是對特定對象反感,只是對於被標籤很反感，覺得不吐不快。我完全沒有怪你的意思~
為什麼結婚了，在週日就是陪奶奶飯茶?晚上就是要相夫教子?為什麼結了婚的就不可以日夜喪浦?別那麼老土，ｐｌｅａｓｅ！不喜歡別人因為我某一個身份而認為我應該怎樣怎樣, 或善意的為我作一些特別安排。當然我了解很多時只是朋輩的一些玩笑,但事情本身還是很讓我反感。我討厭一切別人自行為我作的defination和決定。
唔好標籤我。我沒有因為結婚了,就疏遠朋友,或少去了卡拉OK,或拒絶玩樂,或拒絶認識俊男.
*此段特別寫給那個只是善意想為我作安排，或只是說說的那個朋友:
我知道你可能會來看我的BLOG(我不肯定),請別怪我的坦白率直。我絶對不是對特定對象反感,只是對於被標籤很反感，覺得不吐不快。我完全沒有怪你的意思~
posted by rururu at 4:34 pm
8 Comments:
Totally. My wife also has her own life and she will make her schedule fully occupied in the weekend as well. I respect individual should have his/her life. That would be fine as no one complains.
很多人就是因為結了婚而放棄了追求自己的理想生活，這樣只會令一段婚姻死亡。（好有感觸地說）
有時候有些人會為已經有婚姻的人生下一些沒必要的定義.很奇怪,但又很普遍.
still the same anonymous - why we need marriage nei? as long as we can have (enjoy) our own life, can we just have our own apartment where is close to each other. We can meet if we want to. This is my question after half year marriage.
hey, mr. annonymous, why don't u get a name for yrself? i don't mind unknown pl leave comment, but it is difficult to reply. For example, i can figure u r mr. annoymous who leave comments on my pics, but i am not sure if u r the first mr. annoumous who leave comment on this topic.
why do we need marriage.....we never need a marriage. we just want/wanted a marriage.
yes - they are all from me. ww the anonymous.
i let my wife have her own life after we get married because i respect everyone is an individual who should have his/her own sky (space). she is quite happy with that, and this is the question from myself. - i am confused.
ng.......marriage should be the part which help to complete the life, but not be the part of the whole life.
i donno. maybe i am still learning.
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